
| Location | Canvey Island, Essex |
| Age | 28 years |
| Date of Birth | 5/1979 |
| Date of Death | 5/2007 |
| Visitors | 3,442 since 24/05/2007 |
| Creator |
Daniel had a motorcycle accident on the 8th of May 07, 3 days shy of his 28th birthday,
Daniel had a loving family, a twin brother and a younger brother of 24 who thought of Daniel more
than brothers but best friends also, he also had 3 nieces and 1 nephew all aged between 4 years the
eldest and 6 months the youngest he treated them kids as his own, always proud to speak of them all,
Daniel lived for his family.
Daniel was well thought of by all that knew him, he was always there when help was needed and did
not expect anything in return he was just happy to help, Dan was more known for his joker attitude
his quick wit and one liners that would have you crying in laughter.
Im not going to say to much more as this site is set up for all that knew him to post their own
stories and memories, you will all have a better understanding of who Dan was with the memories that
will be put on this site by family, friends and all that knew him.
A Brothers eulogy.
Before I begin, I would like to thank you all for coming, the support over the last 2 weeks has been
overwhelming, from friends, family, the comments left on the echo news site and from Daniels work,
G4S and the staff at RBSG. The family really do appreciate all you have done. Thank you.
Since preparing for this speech, I have written numerous pages about Daniel, but not happy with what
I had written. But after several cold beers, I remembered how I have been feeling.
One of Dans many friends James, had done the family a video of Daniel and the recent booze cruise he
had gone on. At first I couldn’t watch it as I didn’t need upsetting anymore, but 2/3 days went
by and I decided to watch. All the way through I smiled it was my brother having one of the best
times of his short life. It was Dan being Dan having a fantastic piss up with his friends but this
time it was on a boat, watching this is what has helped me write this speech.
Dan always enjoyed socialising and having a drink, with many memorable nights. One morning I got
up went outside Daniel was cleaning his bike on the drive when my Dad come out the garage and I had
noticed a for sale sign on the neighbour across the roads lawn, I said to my Dad “I didn’t know
lorry was moving “ “nor did I “ said my dad , I noticed Daniel put his head down so I went
over to him and asked if he knew anything about it he said” I think I did it last night” (he
carried a for sale sign home and stuck it in the grass while drunk).
To us Dan was the most genuine person you could ever meet, he never tried to be something he
wasn’t. He would always help and would be there for you without even being asked. He never
expected anything in return. Whether it being giving lifts, running errands, fixing/modifying your
car, you could guarantee him being there, even when it involved hard labour, which was rare for Dan.
One comment shows of Dans helpfulness on the Echo web page. I was reading the echo page and a
young lady had put a comment on there saying she had lost her car keys one night at work, she had
only just started at the bank so she went to security and asked Daniel if any had been handed in,
there wasn’t, she didn’t expect anymore but while she carried on training Daniel went looking
for these keys searched high and low but found them, knowing she would be worried and not able to
concentrate Daniel went and found the lady and gave her her keys, every night he see her leaving he
would shout out “got your keys”.
This leads me on to Dans personality, Dan was a shy individual he did not know, you would get a nod,
a cheeky smile or even a “good morning” if you were lucky. But to his family and friends he was
sarcastic, a practical joker, would wind you up at every opportunity and a classic with his wit and
one liners and would always make you smile. I remember when we were getting our photos done for my
Nan and Granddads 50th wedding anniversary, the photographer said say cheese, sausages, what ever
you like say something that will make you smile, Daniel piped up “hurry up” we did more than
smile.
Dans main passion was his cars, they got louder, faster and were modified in more ways than one.
You may or may not know Dan was a qualified mechanic, but did not enjoy getting cold or wet. So he
became a Security officer and worked at the RBS buildings in Southend. Where he met the best work
colleagues you could ever meet, this is why he never went back into mechanics, but enjoyed his cars
in his spare time.
Dan once brought a mark 2 escort to modify into a rally car, but after closer inspection by my Dad,
as he did with all our cars, he discovered it was rotten. Dan was absolutely gutted, until my Dad
came up with an alternative to turn he escort into a jeep, this they did with Dans slightly extreme
modifications. BOY RACER STYLE.
It was the only jeep I know that was lowered, alloy wheels, quad lights, blue flashing lights,
neon’s.
Daniel was more than a brother to me and Adam he was our best friend, all three off us close we
looked out for one another, to his friends Dan wasn’t just a friend he was more like a brother,
Dan was always there for them and when he needed us we were there for him that was Daniel, I had
asked Daniel to be my best man, that he will remain, my best man, to us all here today Daniel was
the best of men,
I could stand here for hours on end talking about Dan, but I am sure you will be throwing your eggs
and flowers soon. But would like to mention, that a gonetosoon.co.uk there is a tribute to the life
of Daniel, where we are slowly putting stories on, that you can read and enjoy.
INVITE TO OYSTEER FLEET.
THANK YOU.
One year on Dan, it has gone so quick and I still cant believe that tragic day actually happened. There is barely a day goes by that I dont think back, but now I am beginning to remember you for the right reasons.....and I always end up laughing to myself about one thing or another from a memorable moment!
Everytime I hear the song 'Mr Brightside' I think of you, that song is dedicated to you. I always remember your dialtone whenever I would ring your phone! The phone would ring for ages and when you finally did pick up I would still be singing it out loud.....in the end you would always expect it and wait for me to finish before sayin 'Alright mate!' There is a better song out now, well in my opinion anyway, its called 'Read My Mind' and I'm sure you would have loved it just as much.
I've just got back from Mexico recently. I remember the discussion we had about organising the trip at some point.....you kept going on about your factor 50+ sun cream! I'm sure you was watching over me and guiding me home when I would get to legless!
The tattoo is still going good. I got a replica of your tattoo sorted out last June, I would always take the mickey out of you for having that tattoo done but now it has grown on me and of course it has a meaning to it now. Everybody else seems to like it too and I get approached by all sorts!
Yesterday went well, considering. The memorial at RBS was very touching and your colleagues did a very good job, I can see why you enjoyed working there and always had a story to tell me. I had a good few drinks with our friends and your brothers, lit some sambucas in the mouth and was careful enough not to get burnt!
Take care mate.
your still in our thoughts mate!!! where ever you are i know your still having fun and have that cheeky grin on your face.
Can't believe its been a year all ready, still think of all the fun times we had every day, Miss you so much xxxx
Miss you
1 year today can not believe how time as gone, still remember the phone call confiming what i already felt = feels like yesterday.
Not a day, hour or minute goes past without thinking of you, all the laughs, all the jokes, always missing the one liners you use to come out with they all bring a smile to me thinking of them,
Miss you loads and the memories i will keep with me forever, until we meet again,
love you bro
It doesn't seem nearly a year ago since that very sad day. You are still thought about every time I go to work. We still have a big whole at the back door, which is where you would stand and give everyone a cheeky smile and a nod of your head. Miss you Dan. xx
my son Tony died too aged 26
I cant offer a tribute but this is a message for Dans Brother, your words were so wonderful, they mirrored those of my other son (tonys brother) he too had that very close bond with his brother that you share that will always stay with you in your heart and soul. We know only to well of the pain your family is suffering, I offer my heartfelt condolences to your whole family. If you have five minutes my sons tribute is on utube (tony milani) he was born on Canvey Island.
Dan,
I cant belive its been 8 months. I keep going to send you a text to see how you are and have a catch up; i know you wont receive them but i know your looking down and probally saying that everything is going okay.
I really cherish the time we spent chatting at RBS, you really brightened up the saturday morning shifts!
Miss you loads xxx
Do Not Weep
Don't be sad-
I am in a snowflake,
I am in the rays of sun,
I am in the sparkling of stars
Death leaves a heartache
no one can heal;
Love leaves a memory no
one can steal
candle of love
Candles are a gift of light,
A tiny sun, a bit of star.
No other dancer in the night
Dances with such sheer delight,
Little souls serene and bright,
Each a glimpse of what we are
Shining innocent and pure.
Ibiza
Dan, today was the morning that we would have returned from our pre-booked, long weekend in Ibiza. You are extremely missed mate, your memory will always live on.
I'm sure there's an Island where you are now, find us a nice beach bar that serves Sambuca and I'll meet you there one day when my time comes.
Rest in Peace, take care.
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